Ever since man realised he could sharpen the end of a stick to make it pointy to hunt with and save himself the headache of trying to club a T-Rex to death with an unsharpened stick we have always loved gadgets and things that make our life easier.
The world of parenthood is no different! Visit any baby show or event in the lead up to your child being born and you’ll be blindsided by a million and one offerings all of which make it sound like getting your child past six months without them would be a statistical impossibility.
But fear not! I went down that rabbit hole and found what I think are the absolute essentials, the maybes and the one thing I will never forgive myself for buying for my child and wasting my hard-earned money on.
(Before we begin it’s worth pointing out that these opinions are my own and do not represent those of DadAF, DadNatal, Silver Cross or anyone else. Everything is unique to each person’s parenthood journey so take this advice with a pinch of salt and good humour as that is how it is intended!).
I feel like I should stress that before I mention this, this is specific to me only, I can see why this product exists and it does work… But a baby room thermometer in the form of an egg was easily the biggest waste of money we spent. In my mother’s words when she saw it “We used this brilliant invention when you were little it was called… Common sense!” Of course, some people will struggle with telling temperatures (my mother was a nurse so was possibly more attuned!) but I take her point. You can also get these to check the temperature when running a bath (or go old school and use your elbow!) which makes more sense as we all know the hot tap is a fickle beast and this is never something you should take a risk on.
While writing this article I spoke to some other dads about what they considered their essentials and non-essentials, most were similar to mine but one dad said his biggest waste of money was a ‘baby cry analyser’ which is a real thing he spent an obscene amount of money on which promised a 60% success rate?! I cannot stress how quickly you will learn to recognise your own child’s cries and what they relate to so please do not be this dad and save your hard-earned money here!
PJ Douglas is the head of content at Dadnatal – online platforms providing support, advice and help for dads and expectant dads. Having travelled and lived across the world himself, PJ considers becoming a dad his biggest adventure yet!